Early on in our dating and engagement, someone told me we should find out what our expectations were about the little things in addition to the big ones. Things like who was going to make dinner, where the dishwashing liquid was going to be stored, how we wash our clothes, etc. In our dating we asked each other, “What are your expectations with this or that?” Now that we’re married, we wake up every morning and ask each other, “What are your expectations for today?” It has made our life so much easier learning how to be on the same page and how we can work together.